The best way to look at a date is a chance to have fun. As things progress, that’s when you get to know each other.
Most of us have experienced a serious relationship by accident, usually when we really like the person we’re dating and it just naturally develops into something more.
If you’re struggling with this, here’s a short list to help you go from a casual date to a serious mate (so lame, I know).
1) Be Independent Some “experts” say you should act unavailable.
It’s true that being overly available can seem desperate or unattractive, but the last thing you want to do is play dating games.
It’s like telling someone what’s in the present they’re about to unwrap. Focus on having fun, enjoy the mystery, and going from casual to serious will happen naturally.
If all goes well, you won’t have to do “the talk” of whether or not you’re a serious couple.
A nice gesture, but how do you know she deserves them? Some women might be wondering if having sex too soon is scaring guys away.
Holding off to avoid judgement is ridiculous – how can two people have sex at the same time but only one of them does it too soon?
You Leave Some Stuff at Their House If he’s leaving a pair of boxers at your place, it’s a sign.
Likewise, if she’s got some clothes or 8,412 bottles of hair product in your shower, you’re in.
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