You see if you can love them for who they really are and they see if they can handle you through all the good, the bad, and the ugly.However, If you find that there are some crucial things missing in your relationship, you can still revert back to Stage 1, even if the invitations are out.That being said, there are five pieces of advice I’ve used in my own life that I think every RM, and really, every single adult, could use to vastly improve their dating experience and make it more enjoyable for all involved. When I graduated from high school and was starting college, I was immediately overwhelmed by neighbors and ward members who told me, “Now you’ve got to get married!
It may be a tad embarrassing, there may be a lost deposit or two, there may even be some hard conversations to have, but engagement is not a binding contract of forever, and therefore, if needs be, you can still call it off. On the other hand, if everything is coming up daisies, and your love has gone beyond just mere twitterpation, and the road ahead of you looks like the best life you could possibly imagine…You graduate to Stage 5.Engagement is the like the final leg of the dating game, if there is a reason you shouldn’t cross the finish line, don’t. Stage 5 is the highest level of commitment; his and her towels, joint bank accounts, and happily ever afters. You’ve seen what is out there and you are confident in the choice you have made!(The physical aspects of dating can complicate this, but that’s a conversation for another time. This is the part of the game where you really start to invest quality time and sincere effort to see if this person is someone you are truly compatible with.If you find they aren’t, please refer back to Stage 1.They now have two beautiful children and while she sometimes contemplates eating her young they bring her the most joy and fulfillment she could imagine.
Yes, you could say that the family life suits her just fine and she is a firm believer that it suits everyone else as well.While in the dating stage being a “player” in the game is exactly what you want to be!Dating is the phase where you pair off and get to know someone better one-on-one.But, if you think about it, aren’t we all in the dating game for “selfish” purposes.The ultimate goal is to find someone to call our own, right?Someone once said “Wear a helmet.” when referring to the dating game. The truth is, dating doesn’t have to be as hard as we make it out to be.